I host group conversations. Those conversations may include work involving community issues. It may be about identifying an organizational direction amid a rapidly changing competitive landscape. The purpose may be supporting civil dialogue. Perhaps it involves conflict.
Whatever the particular issue is, I utilize a specific protocol to design a process that encourages high engagement to move from ordinary talk to transformational conversation. Questions of depth are the "tools" used, and an important part includes creating a sense of belonging and support for the well-being of the participants.
The goals:
Relatedness. Building social capital, an environment of neighborliness, creates and sustains the kind of place we wish to live in. It heals a wounded culture.
Gift-mindedness. The purpose is to shift the narrative from problems and problem-solving approaches, deficiencies and what’s missing to strengths, our gifts, and what we wish to create. Traditional problem-solving falls short in complex human systems; the framework of gift-mindedness is required.
The inversion of cause. This means understanding that I am cause, or “I create my world." I have agency. This is about truly understanding that the world I encounter is my own production. Blaming and our wish to change others is an escape from my own freedom. The goal is to take responsibility, which is a way to claim your own power.